This episode is sponsored by Chime, Hungryroot & Hiya. Chime: Make progress towards a better financial future with Chime. Get started today https://chime.com/UNPLANNED. Hungryroot: Visit https://hungryroot.com/unplanned and use code UNPLANNED to get 40% off your first box and a free item of your choice. Hiya: Go to https://hiyahealth.com/UNPLANNED and receive 50% off your first order. Get your kids the full-body nourishment they need to grow into healthy adults. Can a single behaviour predict divorce with 93.6% accuracy? According to body language expert Vanessa Van Edwards (@Vvanedwards) yes. In this episode, we unpack the silent cues that can make or break your marriage, the three fights every couple has, and why resentment is the real relationship killer. Plus, Vanessa shares how Botox might actually change your emotions, her journey from awkwardness to confidence, and the surprising science behind listening. Vanessa's IG: https://www.instagram.com/vvanedwards/ Follow The Unplanned Podcast: https://www.instagram.com/unplanned__podcast/ https://www.tiktok.com/@unplanned_podcast Listen to the pod on Spotify/ Apple Podcasts: https://open.spotify.com/show/1ToDA4ufQuWuEgMq07zN6t https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-unplanned-podcast/id1669604504 Follow Matt & Abby: Abby's Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/abbyelizabethoward/ Matt's Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/_matt_howard_/ TikTok | https://www.tiktok.com/@matt_and_abby Facebook | https://www.facebook.com/mattandabb YouTube | https://www.youtube.com/@MattandAbbyHoward Chapters: 00:00 - Vanessa Van Edwards 05:23 - The surprising key to popularity 09:00 - Meeting my husband on a "boy diet" 19:51 - How to identify if someone is contempt with a facial expression 25:22 - The truth about botox 41:14 - How to spot a toxic man early on 51:25 - How to spot a problem in your partner early on 53:28 - The no. 1 predictor of divorce 1:02:38 - How to make your child a better listener 1:09:14 - Your personality is hereditary 1:23:47 - Why everyone should know if their partner is an extrovert 1:31:52 - The key to a strong marriage 1:37:24 - The first question to better understand your partner 1:49:47 - Harry Truman's surprising method for winning presidency 1:54:05 - This question tells you everything about a person #unplannedpodcast #mattandabby