💰 Get my NEW book, Make Money Easy! https://lewishowes.com/moneyyou 🔔 Subscribe for more great content: https://www.youtube.com/lewishowes ▶️ ▶️ Recommended for you: https://youtu.be/3ZtSvc_MnZs?si=gewjcQ3KXyk4gV_E Lewis welcomes Dr. Nicole LePera, renowned author of the #1 New York Times bestsellers "How To Do The Work" and “How to Meet Your Self” Workbook. Dr. LePera, the creator of the #SelfHealers movement, discusses her latest book, "How to Be the Love You Seek," offering invaluable insights into healing relationships starting with oneself. She highlights the significance of understanding past traumas and how they shape current relationship dynamics, emphasizing the importance of self-love, emotional resilience, and cultivating healthy connections. Get Nicole's book "How to Be the Love You Seek: Break Cycles, Find Peace, and Heal Your Relationships": https://amzn.to/3QY5yf9 Listen to this episode on the go! 🍎 Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-school-of-greatness/id596047499 🟢 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/07GQhOZboEZOE1ysnFLipT?si=a03d916bade54d4f 0:00 Intro 1:52 Self love vs self worth. 7:38 Where healing begins. 9:09 What makes up our nervous system? 12:08 What happens in a relationship where people haven't healed their nervous system. 13:02 What is trauma bonding? 16:29 Fixing negative patterns. 21:03 Life cycles to be aware of. 23:47 Navigating a relationship with a reactive partner. 27:41 Supporting a partner who hasn't healed yet. 46:45 Making different attachment styles work in a relationship. 48:01 The different types of relationships. 51:18 How Nicole has been tested. 56:47 The most helpful tool in Nicole's book to navigate relationships. 1:00:59 Earning love and support from an online community. For more info about this episode, go to https://lewishowes.com/1530 📙 get my NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLING book "The Greatness Mindset" today! https://lewishowes.com/gmyo 📤 sign up for my FREE newsletter https://lewishowes.com/greatnessdelivered Follow Lewis! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lewishowes/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lewis Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lewishowes/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/LewisHowes 💻 Website: http://lewishowes.com/ 📲 For more Greatness text PODCAST to +1 (614) 350-3960 Get More Greatness! Greatness Clips: https://www.youtube.com/@GreatnessClips Spanish: https://www.youtube.com/@LewisHowesEspanol Portuguese: https://www.youtube.com/@LewisHowesPortugues Lewis Howes Shorts: https://www.youtube.com/@lewishowesshorts #greatness #inspiration #motivation