World leading relationship therapist, Lori Gottlieb, is back to answer the top relationship questions most people are afraid to ask. From the pressure of finding love in your late 20s and 30s, to whether true love should "just feel easy," Gottlieb exposes why popular beliefs may be holding you back. Learn why many couples break up at the 5-year mark and what makes relationships actually last. Whether you're single, dating, or in a relationship, this conversation offers crucial insights about building lasting connections. If you liked this episode you may enjoy my conversation about attracting love with Joe Dispenza https://youtu.be/F-MEegYIWaM In this interview, we discuss: 00:00 Intro 01:40 Are You Behind In Love? 05:02 We Date Our Unfinished Business 11:51 Attachment Styles 16:48 You're Doing First Dates WRONG 22:02 What Does Love Feel Like? 25:31 Do You Fully Understand Your Partner? 28:13 The Secrets To Long-Lasting Relationships 37:43 Be Consistent With Your Boundaries 46:13 You’re Not Ready For Marriage 50:12 Communicate Your Needs 52:56 The Blind Spots of Dating 56:56 The Truth About Future Tripping 01:00:33 The Truth About Dating Shows & Media 01:01:58 This Is When Most Relationships Fail Statistically 01:04:11 Can Having Children Save a Marriage? 01:07:05 The In-Law Issue 01:12:21 When Couples Therapy Is The Right Choice 01:17:09 How Long Can You Tolerate Disrespect From Your Partner? Episode Resources: https://www.instagram.com/lorigottlieb_author/ https://lorigottlieb.com/ https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/dear-therapists-with-lori-gottlieb-and-guy-winch/id1523340696 https://www.amazon.com/Maybe-You-Should-Talk-Someone/dp/1328662055/ref=sr_1_1?crid=3844JT9OK0UQZ&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.22ybJ891MXFt-hvOEjKn77nRXb5LFK7_CMfVMn6Pq1130MvJPghtslouYllQmjLtKh7n4qBpLGGuYltAnHc-RXvWVSGNIZjsFp4Bff-p_kFzfy355Bj2AA_smV-Z4eziANQy3VZjr7lMIX6cjWAdBck_GRRBWZ_kZudnoTvrC7_kDldEhJ3Jhne4Y3AFY_nS02-33dsnPTWspc3aW_G22DmwGpXwAblpP_bZEWRYZDI._shbirITeJ8PL00veq8fY6p-fgOBfU3jDUEXQ3klZUc&dib_tag=se&keywords=maybe+you+should+talk+to+someone&qid=1732003243&s=books&sprefix=maybe+you%2Cstripbooks%2C154&sr=1-1 https://www.instagram.com/jayshetty/ https://www.facebook.com/jayshetty/ https://x.com/jayshetty https://www.linkedin.com/in/shettyjay/ https://www.youtube.com/@JayShettyPodcast http://jayshetty.me