Jillian sits down with Jay Shetty to talk about what “the work” in love actually looks like — in real time. Jay shares why he created Messy Love (his Audible Original), where listeners get to “sit in the room” with real couples as they navigate cheating narratives, unmet expectations, old wounds, and the messy middle between conflict and connection. Jillian and Jay unpack why compassion isn’t permissive — it’s structured, boundaried, and powerful — and why most relationship fights spiral into accusation, criticism, and defense… leaving zero room for love. If you’ve ever wondered whether you’re asking your partner to change…or asking them to be someone they’re simply not, this episode will land. Listen to Messy Love: Difficult Conversations for Deeper Connection https://www.audible.com/pd/Messy-Love-Audiobook/B0G16Z76ZD?srsltid=AfmBOooK-FHdelOXSBSsw-oLVTI1VmMi7nA57jHlV2aQJz_xApSubYL9 Join The Conscious Woman Waitlist https://jillianturecki.com/waitlist Join my community and membership https://www.jillianturecki.com/membership Submit your relationship question for Jillian at https://forms.gle/FbtgkGTwfnrjvHwW7 Order Jillian's NEW book It Begins with You: The 9 Hard Truths About Love That Will Change Your Life at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book ~~ Follow the show on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com ~~ Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon 🍏 https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/jillian-on-love/id1640172049 https://www.patreon.com/c/jillianonlove ~~ Follow Jillian Turecki on: Instagram https://www.instagram.com/jillianturecki TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@jillian.turecki Visit her website at https://www.jillianturecki.com/ ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us!