Soft White Underbelly interview and portrait of Mike, a San Diego man who had a relationship with a married woman. For ad-free, uncensored videos and plenty of exclusive content please subscribe to the Soft White Underbelly subscription channel at softwhiteunderbelly.com. It's $10 a month and watchable on Apple and Android mobile apps, Roku TV, Apple TV and Amazon Fire. 0:01 – Falling For a Married Woman 2:48 – Engagement And Double Life 4:56 – The Affair Unravels 6:05 – Emotional Collapse And Obsession 8:36 – Restraining Order And Legal Consequences 13:35 – Spiral Into Addiction 20:12 – Reckless Behavior In Mexico 26:02 – Mount Everest And Self-Reflection 32:06 – Childhood Sexual Abuse 36:02 – Final Encounter With His Mom 39:15 – Father's Death 40:56 – Climbing Everest And Finding Meaning 42:48 – Letting Go Of Shame 49:11 – From Destruction To Purpose Here's how to purchase the Soft White Underbelly book and merch: https://softwhiteunderbelly.org. #relationships #swu #softwhiteunderbelly #marklaita #documentary #sandiego #marriedlife