It's Caller Day! Today we're joined by caller Vivian, who is in a happy relationship but with one caveat: she doesn't feel understood when it comes to their exchange of gifts. Does this speak to a greater issue? Just how important is the effort behind gift giving, and what should Vivian do if the effort is barely there at all? Listen on for the Shandy take! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.franklyapparel.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for $15 off your first purchase! - Go to https://www.hellotushy.com/SHANDY for 10% off plus free shipping! 0:00 - Welcome to Caller Vivian! 14:25 - Shandy Sleuthing 53:18 - The Shandy Take Sharleen is wearing: - Top: https://bit.ly/3uPrXyB If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Subscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Listen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunes More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion