In this conversation, the Gottmans and Steven discuss topics such as, how to repair from an affair, why dating apps are broken, the facts behind an awful sex life, and why to stop chasing the idea of 'the one'. 00:00 Intro 02:28 What Do You Do? 05:08 What We Doing Wrong About Dating 09:55 How Do We Find True Love? 11:39 What Is The Most Attractive Thing In A Person? 13:51 The Role Of Self Esteem In How Attractive You Come Across 16:13 There Isn't 'The One' 18:30 Are We Attracted To People Different To Us? 21:11 Do We Need To Lower Our Expectations? 24:52 It's A Red Flag When They Want To Rush Things 29:06 Can You Fake Confidence? 31:25 Science Know If People Connect Well Or Not 35:13 How To Build Confidence 38:04 Differences Between Gender In Attraction 39:37 Why People Need Alcohol When Dating 44:29 Is 'Good Enough', Enough To Be With Someone? 48:06 The Role Of Sex In Attraction 53:40 How To Spice Things Up 57:46 How Much Sex Should We Be Having? 01:03:21 Men Struggle To Talk About Their Feelings 01:09:36 Expressing Gratitude To Your Partner 01:15:55 How To Know If You Should Break Up 01:19:24 The 4 Horsemen Of The Apocalypse In A Relationship 01:25:02 Insecure People Are More Defensive 01:32:19 Do Homosexuals Relationships Last Longer? 01:33:45 Gaslighting 01:38:32 Why People Stay With Gaslighter Or Abusers 01:41:24 How To Help People Going Through Domestic Violence 01:45:01 Treating Affairs 01:47:45 What Percentage Of People Have Affairs? 02:00:42 Does Cheating Help A Relationship? 02:03:34 The Importance Of Connection Follow the Gottmans: Instagram - https://g2ul0.app.link/66wXYNo5QMb Twitter - https://g2ul0.app.link/5htmCbr5QMb The Gottman Institute - https://g2ul0.app.link/KlYOelu5QMb You can purchase the Gottmans’ book, ‘Fight Right: How Successful Couples Turn Conflict into Connection’, here: https://amzn.to/4emRC7u Get access to exclusive Diary of a CEO members content here: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCGq-a57w-aPwyi3pW7XLiHw/join Get your hands on the brand new Diary Of A CEO Conversation Cards here: https://appurl.io/iUUJeYn25v Follow me: https://g2ul0.app.link/gnGqL4IsKKb Sponsors: Shopify - http://shopify.com/bartlett