Dr. Shannon Curry is a clinical psychologist, researcher, and speaker. Modern adult relationships are complicated. With endless talk of red flags, green flags, icks etc., it can be tough to know who’s truly worth your time. So how do you build a lasting, healthy relationship when you're ready for one? Expect to learn what the biggest red flags are to look out for in a partner, the green flags you should look for, the most common reasons why relationships fail, how to see the beauty instead of the challenges in your partner, how you can unlearn the way you argue, how to create longevity in a relationship, the best advice for stopping intrusive thoughts or unwanted worries about your partner, how to move on from heartbreak, and much more… - 0:00 Trade-Offs in Choosing a Partner 06:00 The Importance of Flexibility 10:43 Three Key Traits to Look For 18:53 Are There Clear Red Flag Traits? 21:51 Is it Bad to Be Very Different to Your Partner? 34:53 Can We Unlearn How We Argue & Disagree? 40:17 Why We’re Drawn to Partners We Want to Fix 43:34 The Best Way to Bring an Issue Up to Resolve 47:20 Why Friendship Is So Important in Relationships 51:54 Things That Predict Relationship Longevity 59:06 How to Let Go of Bad Patterns From Previous Relationships 1:05:25 How to Get Over a Breakup 1:17:22 Where to Find Shannon - Get access to every episode 10 hours before YouTube by subscribing for free on Spotify - https://spoti.fi/2LSimPn or Apple Podcasts - https://apple.co/2MNqIgw Get my free Reading List of 100 life-changing books here - https://chriswillx.com/books/ Try my productivity energy drink Neutonic here - https://neutonic.com/modernwisdom - Get in touch in the comments below or head to... Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chriswillx Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/chriswillx Email: https://chriswillx.com/contact/