Order your copy of The Let Them Theory 👉 https://melrob.co/let-them-theory 👈 The #1 Best Selling Book of 2025 🔥 Discover how much power you truly have. It all begins with two simple words. Let Them. — You need to hear today’s episode. I have something profound to share with you, and it will change the way you think about success. Whether you want to make more money, get in the best shape of your life, find the one, launch an incredible business, or see your name on the cover of a book that you publish… This is the coaching and the tools you need to take the next right step. If you’re sick of standing still or talking yourself out of the changes you want to make and the goals you dream of achieving, this one’s for you. And you need to hear it right now. For more resources, including the link to Victoria Monét’s full Grammy speech and her social media platforms, click here for the podcast episode page: https://www.melrobbins.com/podcasts/episode-150 Follow The Mel Robbins Podcast on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/themelrobbinspodcast I’m just your friend. I am not a licensed therapist, and this podcast is NOT intended as a substitute for the advice of a physician, professional coach, psychotherapist, or other qualified professional. Got it? Good. I’ll see you in the next episode. In this episode: 00:00: Intro 03:55: The singer/songwriter who inspired this entire podcast episode. 08:25: Don’t be afraid to go BIG when you ask yourself this question. 09:50: Do this when you have no idea what your dream is. 11:20: Mel reveals for the first time the surprising idea for her next big goal! 14:13: The metaphor that will immediately stop your doubting. 17:17: You’re designed to do this until the day you die. 19:10: If you’re expecting fast results with your goals, you need to hear this. 21:25: The truth about the success you see flaunted all over social media. 26:10: If you’re feeling stuck on your goals, it may be time to do this. 26:45: This is the hardest part of growing. 28:50: Are you resisting those first steps? Then you need to hear this. 30:20: Mel admits to the big way she messed up in her 40’s. 34:10: The pep talk you need if you’re actively working on your goals. 35:40: What to ask yourself when everyone else seems to have what you want. 36:45: When you hit a roadblock, this is what you do. 40:45: Are you making the same mistake Mel made? 44:40: The question to ask when you’re frustrated with the time it’s taking. 45:10: 6 magic words to help keep you in the game. #ambition #goals #goalsetting #dreams — Follow Mel: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melrobbins/ TikTok: http://tiktok.com/@melrobbins Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/melrobbins LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/melrobbins Website: http://melrobbins.com​ — Sign up for Mel’s newsletter: https://melrob.co/sign-up-newsletter A note from Mel to you, twice a week, sharing simple, practical ways to build the life you want. — Subscribe to Mel’s channel here: https://www.youtube.com/melrobbins​?sub_confirmation=1 — Listen to The Mel Robbins Podcast 🎧 New episodes drop every Monday & Thursday! https://melrob.co/spotify https://melrob.co/applepodcasts https://melrob.co/amazonmusic — Looking for Mel’s books on Amazon? Find them here: The Let Them Theory: https://amzn.to/3IQ21Oe The Let Them Theory Audiobook: https://amzn.to/413SObp The High 5 Habit: https://amzn.to/3fMvfPQ The 5 Second Rule: https://amzn.to/4l54fah