This episode is sponsored by Liquid IV, Huggies, BetterHelp & DoorDash. Liquid IV: Get 20% off your first order of Liquid I.V. when you go to https://LiquidIV.com and use code UNPLANNED at checkout. Huggies: Learn more at Huggies.com. Once again, head to Huggies.com to learn more. BetterHelp: Visit https://BetterHelp.com/unplannedpodcast today to get 10% off your first month. DashPass: Sign up for DashPass today and get your first 30 days free if you’re a new member. Subject to change. Terms apply. BUY OUR MERCH!! https://unplannedpodcast.com @JingerandJeremy discuss life growing up in the Duggar household, their courtship, and their plans for baby no. 3 Jinger's IG: https://www.instagram.com/jingervuolo/ Jeremy's IG: https://www.instagram.com/jeremy_vuolo/ Listen to Matt's new song "unfollow me" here: https://song.link/i/1735174500 Follow Matt on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/artist/13zOfSuwHaEmdNMnzMcSaC?si=AqJxwjqBRxeM3SmtsngXZA&nd=1 Follow The Unplanned Podcast: https://www.instagram.com/unplanned__podcast/ https://www.tiktok.com/@unplanned_podcast Listen to the pod on Spotify/ Apple Podcasts: https://open.spotify.com/show/1ToDA4ufQuWuEgMq07zN6t https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-unplanned-podcast/id1669604504 Follow Matt & Abby: Abby's Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/abbyelizabethoward/ Matt's Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/_matt_howard_/ TikTok | https://www.tiktok.com/@matt_and_abby Facebook | https://www.facebook.com/mattandabb YouTube | https://www.youtube.com/@MattandAbbyHoward 00:00 - Episode 71 02:46 - Dating a reality TV star 07:36 - How the IBLP cult started 10:50 - Growing up in a cult 19:16 - I was raised to believe adoption was wrong 28:11 - My childhood on 19 Kids and Counting 32:01 - Growing up with 18 siblings 38:21 - "Courting" my wife in the Duggar family 56:45 - Wearing pants for the first time 1:02:29 - Life after 19 Kids and Counting 1:12:38 - Writing about my life as a Duggar 1:21:59 - Why all of the Duggars have "J" names 1:24:47 - Someone tried to sell my diary on eBay #unplannedpodcast #mattandabby