💰 Get my NEW book, Make Money Easy! https://lewishowes.com/moneyyou 🔔 Subscribe for more great content: https://www.youtube.com/lewishowes ▶️ ▶️ Recommended for you: https://youtu.be/sq9NnPWH5eM Nick Viall is an LA-based award-winning podcast host, best-selling author, entrepreneur, and a familiar face from ABC’s “The Bachelor”. He has also carved a niche for himself as a contemporary voice in the world of dating advice. His podcast, "The Viall Files," is a treasure trove of insights on relationships and pop culture, amassing over 100 million downloads. In this episode Nick discusses how to distinguish between seeking validation and experiencing true love, strategies for moving on gracefully from a relationship and overcoming heartbreak, future predictions for the dating world and advice for maintaining authenticity in relationships. Listen to this episode on the go! 🍎 Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-school-of-greatness/id596047499 🟢 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/07GQhOZboEZOE1ysnFLipT?si=a03d916bade54d4f For more info about this episode, go to https://lewishowes.com/1565 📙 get my NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLING book "The Greatness Mindset" today! https://lewishowes.com/gmyo 📤 sign up for my FREE newsletter https://lewishowes.com/greatnessdelivered Follow Lewis! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lewishowes/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lewis Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lewishowes/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/LewisHowes 💻 Website: http://lewishowes.com/ 📲 For more Greatness text PODCAST to +1 (614) 350-3960 Get More Greatness! Greatness Clips: https://www.youtube.com/@GreatnessClips Spanish: https://www.youtube.com/@LewisHowesEspanol Portuguese: https://www.youtube.com/@LewisHowesPortugues Lewis Howes Shorts: https://www.youtube.com/@lewishowesshorts 00:00:00 - Intro 00:03:03 - Lessons Learned from Love Relationships 00:06:00 - Love, Ego, and Relationships 00:09:02 - The Difference Between Validation and Love 00:11:53 - The Switch from Seeking Validation to Acceptance 00:15:01 - Holding on to Pain and Relationships 00:17:54 - Letting Loose and Making Bad Decisions 00:20:45 - Overcoming a Breakup with Grace 00:23:49 - Accepting the Loss and Moving On 00:26:41 - Stuck in the Past 00:29:33 - The Danger of Seeking Validation on Social Media 00:32:30 - Prioritizing in a Relationship 00:35:24 - The Importance of Compatibility in Relationships 00:38:31 - Red flags to look out for when dating someone. 00:41:35 - Accepting Love and Self-Love 00:44:27 - Embracing Imperfections and Overcoming Fear 00:47:22 - The Importance of Reinventing Yourself 00:50:07 - Teaching Values and Self-Worth 00:53:19 - Teaching Love and Value Without Toxicity 00:56:32 - The Lost Art of Communication 00:59:21 - Prioritizing Connection in Relationships 01:02:13 - The Power of Intention 01:05:16 - The Most Meaningful Thing 01:08:10 - The Importance of Resiliency in Overcoming Challenges #greatness #inspiration #motivation