Rachel Hollis sits down with Jay Shetty to talk about loving yourself and seeing failure as success. We all need to learn to see the positive aspects of every failure in our life, to take proper care of ourselves by taking good care of our health, to sit down and process pain and grief at our own pace, and to never lose ourselves just to keep a relationship. Rachel is #1 New York Times Best-Selling and a motivational speaker. She authored three self-help books including Girl, Wash Your Face and Girl, Stop Apologizing. Aside from keeping herself busy with her podcast, The Rachel Hollis Podcast, she's also founded The Hollis Company, a media company that exists to arm people with the tools to make positive and lasting change. What We Discuss with Rachel: 00:00 Intro 02:06 Mental illness is not just about taking prescription medicine 06:00 Being intentional about trying to live in a healthy way 12:17 What the evolution of social media is doing to us 21:05 “My advance for my first book, which was Party Girl was $1,000.” 24:02 When something shakes the best life you think you have 38:24 Journaling every single morning to remember conscious moments 41:53 Pushing yourself to get over a difficult moment in your life 46:31 A different view of failure 54:48 You create something that you value and believe in and put it out there 59:10 There are many parts of us that can make a better version of ourselves 01:05:38 Feeding into your own narrative 01:09:24 “An apology without action or change is empty.” 01:12:27 Having support from people who cares without high expectations 01:17:14 How do you establish boundaries when you haven't done it before? 01:22:33 What’s your love language? 01:26:00 Don’t make other people’s process of pain about you 01:29:10 You’re trying to be the person who your partner thinks you are 01:37:19 We need to stop seeing the end of things as failure 01:40:40 Rachel on Final Five Enter my daily Sama Tea giveaway here: samatea.com/yt Text me: 310-997-4177 -- Subscribe and be a part of the movement to make wisdom go viral: http://bit.ly/2n6hiQP-​​​​ -- Join the conversation by commenting below. -- Enroll in Genius Coaching to improve your life, deepen your relationships and find happiness every day: https://pages.jayshetty.me/genius/​​​​ -- Check Out My New Book, Think Like a Monk: https://thinklikeamonkbook.com/​​​​ -- Jay Shetty is a storyteller, podcaster, and former monk who wants to make wisdom go viral. He loves taking his own life experiences, lessons from his time as a monk, and truths he has learned to make others’ lives better. -- Follow me on Social Media: LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/shettyjay... Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/JayShettyIW/... Twitter: https://twitter.com/jayshettyiw​​​​ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jayshetty​​​​ Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.co.uk/jayshetty... Sign up for my Viral Wisdom Newsletter: https://jayshetty.me/email