Aella is a sex researcher, writer, and sex worker. Please support this podcast by checking out our sponsors: - House of Macadamias: https://houseofmacadamias.com/lex and use code LEX to get 20% off your first order - Athletic Greens: https://athleticgreens.com/lex to get 1 month of fish oil - InsideTracker: https://insidetracker.com/lex to get 20% off EPISODE LINKS: Aella's Website: https://knowingless.com/ Aella's Twitter: https://twitter.com/aella_girl/ Aella's OnlyFans: https://onlyfans.com/aella_girl/ Askhole card game: https://askhole.io/ PODCAST INFO: Podcast website: https://lexfridman.com/podcast Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/2lwqZIr Spotify: https://spoti.fi/2nEwCF8 RSS: https://lexfridman.com/feed/podcast/ Full episodes playlist: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLrAXtmErZgOdP_8GztsuKi9nrraNbKKp4 Clips playlist: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLrAXtmErZgOeciFP3CBCIEElOJeitOr41 OUTLINE: 0:00 - Introduction 1:57 - Uncertainty 9:34 - Sex, power, and death 22:03 - Free will 23:29 - Consciousness 33:24 - Childhood 46:22 - Dancing 59:38 - Casual sex 1:01:53 - Camming 1:16:48 - OnlyFans 1:27:02 - Dating 1:42:54 - Escorting 2:00:55 - Emotion vs reason 2:09:00 - Love 2:16:32 - Polyamory 2:25:26 - Monogamy 2:31:57 - Sex fetishes 2:49:25 - Dominance and submissiveness 2:59:06 - Psychedelics 3:18:18 - Romance 3:25:47 - Body count 3:35:34 - Porn 3:38:53 - Mortality 3:41:29 - AI 3:52:09 - Rationalist discourse 3:56:00 - Meaning of life SOCIAL: - Twitter: https://twitter.com/lexfridman - LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lexfridman - Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lexfridman - Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lexfridman - Medium: https://medium.com/@lexfridman - Reddit: https://reddit.com/r/lexfridman - Support on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/lexfridman