We’re feeling ourselves on this week’s interview with photographer Quil Lemons. Quil was kind enough to host us in Hannah Traore Gallery, where his latest solo show Quiladelphia is on display until the end of the year, to get deep on maturity and working on yourself, art is back in NYC, avoiding cheese at openings, checking in on the black male psyche, the corporate response to black bodies, how horny is he really, being born awesome and transferable skills, the big balls mindset, collaborating with Sky High Farm and whether farm boys indeed do it better, tips for dick pics, reconciling fine art pursuits with commercial bag chasing, That Bitch Sr. raising That Bitch Jr. right and paying it forward to mom, why he had to leave Philly, refusing to miss Vivienne Westwood before she passed despite a raging skin infection, bonding with Ice Spice on set over Lana Del Rey and the American dream, his best-dressed boy Steve Lacy, indulging us by describing in detail what it’s like to hug Salma Hayek, the wonders of drag, fits that make the eye dance, the power of words of affirmation, the Tumblr years, high school’s Abercrombie tee war of attrition, playing Santa for his siblings, beating the gay allegations thanks to his Jordan reselling uncle and much more on this artsy fartsy episode of The Only Podcast That Matters™. For more Throwing Fits, check us out on Patreon: www.patreon.com/throwingfits (http://www.patreon.com/throwingfits) .