Soft White Underbelly interview and portrait of Orion Taraban, psychologist in the San Francisco Bay area. Orion's YouTube channel is www.youtube.com/@psychacks. Subscribe through my link https://ground.news/swu or download the mobile app and enter promo code SWU to save 40% off their Vantage plan. For ad-free, uncensored videos and plenty of exclusive content please subscribe to the Soft White Underbelly subscription channel at https://softwhiteunderbelly.com. It's $10 a month and watchable on Apple and Android mobile apps, Roku TV, Apple TV and Amazon Fire. 0:00 Planting Seeds of Insight 2:09 The Feminization of Men 6:35 Ground News Ad 6:39 How the Women Won Survivor 10:01 Traditional Masculinity 13:32 What Do Women Want? 16:02 Nice Guys Finish Last 18:04 What Do Men Want? 19:00 Testosterone and Transition Perspectives 21:07 The Sexual Marketplace 23:31 Men Study Women, Do Women Study Men? 25:06 Power Dynamics 33:31 Why Women Are Anxious 36:25 FOMO on Motherhood 39:04 Losing Power with Age 43:17 People Choose Dreams Over Love 44:15 Do Opposites Attract? 46:45 Does Therapy Work? 51:00 We Create Our Own Storylines 54:30 Why Are Some People More Resilient? 56:11 Trauma as Frozen Emotion 1:01:05 – AI, Romance, and a Brave New World Here's how to purchase the Soft White Underbelly books and merch: https://softwhiteunderbelly.org. #swu #followup #softwhiteunderbelly #psychologist #whatwomenwant #oriontaraban #marklaita #documentary #mentalhealth #relationships #companionship