It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today's happy couple is bonafide Bachelor royalty: Ben Higgins and his stunning fiancée, Jess Clarke! These two join us from their house in Denver, which they are currently renovating, to talk the ins and outs of their sweet relationship. We learn their first impressions of one another, the ways they complement each other, and of course, how they FIGHT! Finally, the Dear Shandy Newlyweds Game! Who knows who better? Watch on to find out! Thanks to our sponsor - HELLO TUSHY! Visit http://www.hellotushy.com/SHANDY for 10% off and free shipping on your Hello Tushy bidet! More Ben & Jess Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/higgins.ben/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jessclarke_ Generous Coffee: https://generouscoffee.com/ Order Ben's Book: https://www.thomasnelson.com/p/alone-in-plain-sight/#preorder Hope Still Wins Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/hope-still-wins/id1568735974 If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com 00:00 - Welcome to Ben Higgins & Jessica Clarke! 04:55 - First Impressions & How They've Changed 10:54 - Hearing Each Other's Voices For The First Time 18:00 - How They Complement Each Other 24:00 - How They Fight 31:30 - An Early Relationship Hurdle 35:30 - Making the Decision To Move For Love 40:26 - Asking Jess's Father For His Marriage Blessing 42:49 - What They Do To Actively Maintain the Health of Their Relationship 44:24 - How They "Knew" 1:01:06 - The Newlyweds Game Subscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Listen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunes More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by 7EQUIS