It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today we're joined by Ben Zorn (The Bachelorette Season 11; Bachelor In Paradise Season 4) and his lovely wife Stacy Santilena. To say Shandy enjoyed getting to know these two is a massive understatement and in the words of Sharleen afterwards: "I want to be friends with them." Today Ben and Stacy join Shandy to share how they went from "just friends" to married with a baby, how they overcame a very relatable early hurdle, Stacy's journey from believing she didn't want kids to wholeheartedly loving their son Logan, and of course, how they FIGHT! Finally, an unprecedented Dear Shandy Newlyweds Game that will BLOW YOU AWAY. Who knows who better? Watch on to find out! More Ben: https://www.instagram.com/benzornlife https://www.zornfitness.com More Stacy: https://www.instagram.com/ssantilena Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome To Ben & Stacey! 0:46 - How They Met 7:32 - First Impressions 19:24 - How They Began Dating (After Friendship) 30:18 - Stacey’s Thoughts On Ben On The Show 32:00 - How They Complement Each Other 33:31 - Early Hurdle 40:04 - How They Fight 44:21 - How Parenthood Has Changed Their Relationship 54:16 - Relationship Beliefs That Have Changed 1:02:15 - The Dear Shandy Newlyweds Game 1:21:21 - Shandy Debrief Sharleen is wearing: - jumpsuit: https://bit.ly/3OeVY4C If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Support Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Subscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Listen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunes More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion