This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp, Wildgrain, Audible, Revolve & Nutrafol BetterHelp: Our listeners get 10% off their first month at http://BetterHelp.com/unplannedpodcast #ad Wildgrain: Wildgrain is offering our listeners $30 off the first box - PLUS free Croissants in every box - when you go to http://wildgrain.com/UNPLANNED to start your subscription. Audible: Your first great love story is free when you sign up for a free 30-day trial at http://audible.com/unplanned Revolve: Shop at http://revolve.com/unplanned and use code UNPLANNED for 15% off your first order. #REVOLVEpartner Nutrafol: Find out why Nutrafol is the best-selling hair growth supplement brand at https://Nutrafol.com Matt sits down with Tori Halford (​⁠@Torihalford) to talk about her raw and emotional IVF journey — from breaking off her engagement to facing infertility, miscarriage, and an emergency surgery after egg retrieval. Tori opens up about what IVF really costs (emotionally and financially), how she found strength through it all, and the realities of navigating infertility in the public eye. Tori's IG: https://www.instagram.com/torhalford/ Tori’s Community Link: https://herturn.co/herturn-community-a?am_id=YTUT Follow The Unplanned Podcast: https://www.instagram.com/unplanned__podcast/ https://www.tiktok.com/@unplanned_podcast Listen to the pod on Spotify/ Apple Podcasts: https://open.spotify.com/show/1ToDA4ufQuWuEgMq07zN6t https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-unplanned-podcast/id1669604504 Follow Matt & Abby: Abby's Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/abbyelizabethoward/ Matt's Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/_matt_howard_/ TikTok | https://www.tiktok.com/@matt_and_abby Facebook | https://www.facebook.com/mattandabb YouTube | https://www.youtube.com/@MattandAbbyHoward Chapters: 00:00 - Tori Halford 05:07 - I broke off my engagement 14:57 - My infertility journey 15:19 - How I find out I was infertile 16:09 - How my infertility medication affected me 19:20 - Opening up about my miscarriage 23:30 - Finding out my IVF failed 25:48 - IVF egg retrieval gone wrong 29:25 - The hardest part about IVF 31:46 - How much it costs to get pregnant through IVF 35:49 - I blamed myself for my miscarriage 47:21 - Why it is dangerous to transfer two embryos at once 58:13 - The ethical dilemma of IVF #unplannedpodcast #mattandabby