💰 Get my NEW book, Make Money Easy! https://lewishowes.com/moneyyou 🔔 Subscribe for more great content: https://www.youtube.com/lewishowes ▶️ Recommended for you: https://youtu.be/9OsNWnZJXrs Former Secret Service agent Evy Poumpouras reveals elite psychological tactics that can transform how you handle difficult people, detect deception, and maintain control in any situation. This episode delivers practical techniques to extract truth from liars and establish authentic connections without manipulation. Evy’s BBC Maestro Course ‘The Art of Influence’ https://bbcm.co/3DUH6I0 Evy’s book Becoming Bulletproof: Protect Yourself, Read People, Influence Situations, and Live Fearlessly https://amzn.to/4jtQGkC Listen to this episode on the go! 🍎 Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-school-of-greatness/id596047499 🟢 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/07GQhOZboEZOE1ysnFLipT?si=a03d916bade54d4f For more info about this episode, go to https://lewishowes.com/1764 📙 get my NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLING book "The Greatness Mindset" today! https://lewishowes.com/gmyo 📤 sign up for my FREE newsletter https://lewishowes.com/greatnessdelivered Follow Lewis! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lewishowes/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lewis Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lewishowes/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/LewisHowes 💻 Website: http://lewishowes.com/ 📲 For more Greatness text PODCAST to +1 (614) 350-3960 Get More Greatness! Greatness Clips: https://www.youtube.com/@GreatnessClips Spanish: https://www.youtube.com/@LewisHowesEspañol Portuguese: https://www.youtube.com/@LewisHowesPortugues Lewis Howes Shorts: https://www.youtube.com/@lewishowesshorts 0:00 Intro 00:02:25 The Art of Letting Go: Finding Balance Without the Chase 00:05:23 Launching the School of Greatness: A Unique Approach to Podcasting 00:07:30 Intense NYPD Academy Training Experience 00:09:53 Overcoming Challenges in NYPD Training 00:12:31 Overcoming External and Internal Doubt 00:15:17 Overcoming Dependency on External Validation 00:17:56 Overcoming Shame and Becoming a Secret Service Agent 00:20:28 Understanding Human Nature: Beyond Good and Evil 00:23:12 Embracing Reality and Personal Boundaries 00:25:55 The Importance of Reliability and Integrity in High-Stakes Roles 00:28:27 Adapting to the World: Key to Success 00:31:02 Effective Interview Techniques: Adapting Your Approach 00:33:56 The Art of Silence: Revealing Truth Through Listening 00:36:17 The Importance of Truth and Emotional Safety in Relationships 00:38:54 How to Gather Information Without Confrontation 00:41:32 Coping with Heartbreak and Making Empowered Decisions 00:43:55 Adopting a Neutrality Mindset for Emotional Balance 00:46:25 Neutrality and Gathering Information from Suspects 00:48:51 Emotional Regulation and Personal Responsibility 00:51:32 Effective Communication Strategies in Heated Situations 00:54:03 Understanding Adaptability and Ego in Relationships 00:56:34 Life's Defining Moments: 9/11 and Near-Death Experiences 01:00:38 Navigating Guilt and the Pressure to Please Others #greatness #inspiration #motivation