Soft White Underbelly interview and portrait of Cheri Shandra, an Orange County, California woman who helps others with their trauma. Here’s Cheri’s website: https://www.cherishandra.com 0:00 Introduction to Cheri's Story 0:49 Childhood in a Dysfunctional Home 3:03 Becoming the Caretaker and Losing Childhood 5:00 Abuse, Isolation, and Longing for Love 7:00 Groomed and Assaulted at 13 13:02 Unsafe Industry Experiences in LA 15:01 Realizations, Moving, and Trauma Triggers 17:05 Bulimia and Coping 20:17 Returning Home and Meeting Her Husband 21:01 Infidelity and Emotional Collapse 23:05 Anorexia 24:02 Denial and Enabling 27:21 Estrangement from Father 31:01 Awakening and Becoming a Coach 32:59 Narcissistic Cycles and Psychological Damage 35:01 Understanding Trauma 37:19 The Science of Stress and Healing 46:01 Life After Chaos and Finding Peace 48:21 Loving Yourself and Finding Wholeness For ad-free, uncensored videos and plenty of exclusive content please subscribe to the Soft White Underbelly subscription channel at https://softwhiteunderbelly.com. It's $10 a month and watchable on Apple and Android mobile apps, Roku TV, Apple TV and Amazon Fire. Here's how to purchase the Soft White Underbelly books and merch: https://softwhiteunderbelly.org. #swu #softwhiteunderbelly #documentary #marklaita #trauma #traumahealing #coaching #eatingdisorderawareness #healingjourney #narcissist