Soft White Underbelly interview and portrait of Sadia Khan, a relationship coach in London and Dubai. Here’s a link to Sadia’s book: https://www.amazon.com/Red-Flags-Truth-Trauma-Therapist/dp/B0G35GWPBH 0:00 The Relationship Advice Nobody Wants to Hear 1:01 Sadia Khan’s New Book: The Red Flags 3:44 How Low Self-Esteem Keeps People in Bad Relationships 7:15 Childhood Trauma & Adult Love 11:16 The Truth About Body Count & Pair Bonding 16:38 How Appearance Shapes Dating & Attraction 22:35 Fatherlessness and Relationship Wounds 27:40 Why Modern Dating Feels So Broken 31:36 Why Nice People Finish Last 36:42 The Accountability Problem in Relationships 39:00 When Love Becomes Transactional 44:31 Pornography, Escorts & Modern Intimacy 49:15 The Hidden Cost of Validation Seeking 56:45 Marriage, Commitment & Long-Term Compatibility 1:05:40 Red Flags People Ignore Before It’s Too Late 1:11:12 Final Thoughts on Love, Dating & Human Nature For full-length, ad-free and uncensored videos please subscribe to the Soft White Underbelly subscription channel at softwhiteunderbelly.com. It's $10 a month and watchable on Apple and Android mobile apps, Roku TV, Apple TV and Amazon Fire. Here's how to purchase the Soft White Underbelly books and merch: https://softwhiteunderbelly.org #swu #softwhiteunderbelly #documentary #marklaita #sadiakhan #relationships #humanconnection #redflags #parasocial #privileges