Dreamland Baby: Go to https://dreamlandbabyco.com and enter code UNPLANNED at checkout to receive 20% off sitewide + free shipping. Chime: Turn everyday purchases into steps toward your financial goals with Chime’s secure credit card. Get started today at https://chime.com/UNPLANNED. Liquid I.V.: Get 20% off your first order of Liquid I.V. when you go to https://LiquidIV.com and use code UNPLANNED at checkout. Mint Mobile: Cut your wireless bill to 15 bucks a month at https://mintmobile.com/unplanned Abby's sister-in-laws, Abby & Addy, join this week to chat about Abby missing her brother’s wedding, setting family boundaries, and spotting dating red flags. Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abigailghoward/ Addy's IG: https://www.instagram.com/addybiswell/ BUY OUR MERCH!! https://unplannedpodcast.com Follow The Unplanned Podcast: https://www.instagram.com/unplanned__podcast/ https://www.tiktok.com/@unplanned_podcast Listen to the pod on Spotify/ Apple Podcasts: https://open.spotify.com/show/1ToDA4ufQuWuEgMq07zN6t https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-unplanned-podcast/id1669604504 Follow Matt & Abby: Abby's Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/abbyelizabethoward/ Matt's Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/_matt_howard_/ TikTok | https://www.tiktok.com/@matt_and_abby Facebook | https://www.facebook.com/mattandabb YouTube | https://www.youtube.com/@MattandAbbyHoward Chapters: 00:00 - Sisters-in-law 03:01 - Getting introduced to my husband's family 07:58 - The reality of getting married young 25:08 - When you're the first person at the club 31:04 - Is life really "over" after kids? 34:55 - Addressing the expectation to stop working as a mother 47:07 - Getting a UTI on my first family vacation 1:03:12 - When your sister-in-law works for you 1:10:48 - Trivia no one asked for 1:19:43 - Behind the scenes of Matt & Abby 1:38:42 - Maintaining friendships as an adult 1:45:42 - My rule for people who cancel plans 1:55:25 - My advice to single women #unplannedpodcast #mattandabby