Have you been asking yourself lately: What the actual f* is going on in relationships right now?! Because SAME. So I brought back my soul bro, spiritual philosopher, and YouTube king himself—Aaron Doughty—to channel the masculine, while I spoke on behalf of you: The divine feminine, goddess-coded, shadow-integrating, boss babe who just wants a relationship that actually feels good. And let me tell you… we WENT IN. We talk about: - The three levels of consciousness in dating + relationships (yes, David Deida style) - The unconscious roles of victim, perpetrator, and rescuer—and how we’re all playing them - Why you might be confusing love with a full-time healing project - What to do if your partner isn’t growing with you - How to stop being your partner’s coach and start being their equal - And why some relationships are meant for love, joy, and family—not shadow work 24/7 We also get super real about the fantasy so many spiritual women are holding onto: That someday, someone will come along who’s fully healed, fully conscious, and doesn’t trigger any part of your trauma… Yeah. About that.. This episode is your permission slip to stop fixing, stop overanalyzing, and stop trying to spiritually engineer your soulmate into existence. Because the tea is: maybe the healing is in letting go of the need to “do the work” for your partner—and finally trusting yourself to choose peace, clarity, and connection. This one’s for the girlies who are tired of dating emotional projects, want actual polarity,and are ready to understand wtf is really going on between men and women right now—from a high-vibe, grounded, actually-helpful perspective. Become a Certified Dharma Coach here: https://highestselfinstitute.com/spring-2025 Connect with Aaron here:https://www.instagram.com/aarondoughty44/?hl=en Discover Aaron’s youtube channel here: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC48MclMZIY_EaOQwatzCpvw Discover Your Dharma - Order your copy now - https://iamsahararose.com/dharma Stream the Intro + Outro Music: Trust Flow by Sahara Rose ft. WillyNoir here https://open.spotify.com/track/5YJ6t9KWmkD8PK9oOyD4qB and watch the music video here https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GKrYJye7B8k To receive a free womb mediation, email a screenshot of your review of the Highest Self Podcast to sahara@iamsahararose.com Follow me your spiritual bestie to active your fullest expression + laugh along the way: https://www.Instagram.com/iamsahararose https://www.tiktok.com/@iamsahararose https://www.Facebook.com/iamsahararose Order My Books: https://www.iamsahararose.com/books By accessing this Podcast, I acknowledge that the entire contents are the property of Sahara Rose, or used by Sahara Rose with permission, and are protected under U.S. and international copyright and trademark laws. Except as otherwise provided herein, users of this Podcast may save and use information contained in the Podcast only for personal or other non-commercial, educational purposes. No other use, including, without limitation, reproduction, retransmission or editing, of this Podcast may be made without the prior written permission of the Sahara Rose, which may be requested by contacting pr@iamsahararose.com. This podcast is for educational purposes only. The host claims no responsibility to any person or entity for any liability, loss, or damage caused or alleged to be caused directly or indirectly as a result of the use, application, or interpretation of the information presented herein. Timestamps: 00:00 - Intro 02:55 - Podcast Guest: Aaron Doughty 03:50 - Where Are All The Spiritual Men? 07:25 - Take Action On Your Dharma 11:45 - Levels Of Consciousness 14:30 - Men Vs Women Spritual Journey 16:52 - What To Do If Your Partner Is Not Matching Your Spiritual Growth? 22:10 - The Past Does Not Equal The Present 27:18 - The Best Way To Fix Other People 34:25 - Finding Spiritual People 42:15 - How To Know If Someone’s “The One” 48:38 - What Does It Mean If A Man Pulls Away? 1:03:54 - Spirituality Is Simple 1:09:30 - How To Become Magnetic