Order your copy of The Let Them Theory 👉 https://melrob.co/let-them-theory 👈 The #1 Best Selling Book of 2025 🔥 Discover how much power you truly have. It all begins with two simple words. Let Them. — If you’re feeling like you’re behind in some area of your life, today’s episode is a must-listen. Mel is directly addressing one of the most requested topics of all time: when you don’t feel like you’re on the “right timeline” compared to everyone else around you. By the time you finish listening, the way you view your entire life will change. In this episode, Mel goes decade by decade, and speaks to the pressures that people face in their 20s, 30s, 40s, 50s, 60s, 70s, and even 80s and 90s. She will hit, head on, the “invisible checklist” and myths that are making you feel stressed out and behind in life. If you’ve ever felt like you should… -Have your career figured out by now -Have already met the love of your life -Have more money in the bank -Own a home -Find a life partner if you want to have kids -Be less stressed and happier -Have found purpose and meaning -Be ready to retire -Found your lifelong friends Today’s episode is for you. Mel is going to liberate you from the expectations of society, your family, your friends, and even the ones you’re putting on yourself. She has the facts, the science, the psychology, and thousands of listener comments to back everything up. This is an episode you do not want to miss, and that you’ll want to share with everyone you love. For more resources related to today’s episode, click here for the podcast episode page: https://www.melrobbins.com/podcasts/episode-280 Follow The Mel Robbins Podcast on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/themelrobbinspodcast I’m just your friend. I am not a licensed therapist, and this podcast is NOT intended as a substitute for the advice of a physician, professional coach, psychotherapist, or other qualified professional. Got it? Good. I’ll see you in the next episode. In this episode: 00:00 Welcome 00:58 Science Says You’re Not Behind in Life 04:23 The Lies About Aging That Are Keeping You Stuck 14:28 The Truth About Your 20s 30:26 The Truth About Your 30s 46:25 The Truth About Your 40s 53:12 The Truth About Your 50s 1:00:41 The Truth About Your 60s 01:06:49 The Truth About Your 70s and Beyond 01:13:11 No Matter What,  You Still Have Plenty of Time — Follow Mel: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melrobbins/ TikTok: http://tiktok.com/@melrobbins Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/melrobbins LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/melrobbins Website: http://melrobbins.com​ — Sign up for Mel’s newsletter: https://melrob.co/sign-up-newsletter A note from Mel to you, twice a week, sharing simple, practical ways to build the life you want. — Subscribe to Mel’s channel here: https://www.youtube.com/melrobbins​?sub_confirmation=1 — Listen to The Mel Robbins Podcast 🎧 New episodes drop every Monday & Thursday! https://melrob.co/spotify https://melrob.co/applepodcasts https://melrob.co/amazonmusic — Looking for Mel’s books on Amazon? Find them here: The Let Them Theory: https://amzn.to/3IQ21Oe The Let Them Theory Audiobook: https://amzn.to/413SObp The High 5 Habit: https://amzn.to/3fMvfPQ The 5 Second Rule: https://amzn.to/4l54fah